
For months we have been discussing the fact that we needed to pull the plug. Quite literally! But Mommy always had an excuse. Can't push any blame on Daddy here, because he was ready to do this months ago. I promise, it was always a really good excuse. But an excuse none the less. First it was moving, and then living in someone elses home, then moving again, then having a baby sister, then... You get the point. Good excuses, right? I'm not really sure why I kept coming up with excuses except that I have a really vivid imagination and expected this to be a traumatic event that would take us years to recover from. I envisioned a distraught boy crying for hours trying to go to sleep; a distraught Mommy crying because she was sick of the crying or because her baby was growing up (or any number of other emotions); and Daddy somewhere in the middle trying to keep said boy in his bed, and said Mommy from running in to rescue her poor child. I really don't know why I thought it would be like this. I'm not really a cryer, and once I've made up my mind about something I don't generally give in to easily (just ask Brian, ha!). But that is what I imagined. Call it pregnancy and post labor hormones maybe. (Please, give me some excuse.)

Daddy: Do you realize what an important day this is in your life? You are a big boy now and big boys don't have passy's. (Stefan solemnly nods) Have you ever seen Papi, or Uncle Bob, or Daddy with a passy? No, because they are men and they don't need passy's. (Nod again) We are going to say bye-bye to the passy.
Stefan: Passy all gone?
Daddy: Yes, all gone. I want you to think about it for a moment because this is going to change your life forever. (At this point Mommy is thinking just get this over with, along with the crying that is sure to come).
Stefan: Bye-bye passy.
And he kisses his passy and throws it in the trash. That was it. Nothing else. Not a cry. No mention of it. Went to bed without a peep and has never asked for it since. One night we are crying for it to go to sleep, and the next night no word about it.

So there you have it. The story of passy being "all gone."
8 comments:
Great post - I enjoyed reading it! Congrats to Stefan, Mommy, and Daddy for this great accomplishment!
:-) Cute!!!!! I remember Benjamin always had to have his 'lamby' and 'pluggy-we called it'......it is a big accomplishment when they conquer these milestones! I do think they are wonderful aids to beautifully LONG naps, though, don't you?! I know some who won't let their kids have pacifiers, and other helps....I always had my thumb which is another whole story....but.....I say whatever helps with sleeping is lovely! I hear you about the emotions too....I bawled my BRAINS OUT when Elise moved into her OWN room in her OWN crib.....Ben promptly was in his own room, I believe as soon as we came home from the hospital! ;-)
Sweet milestones!! I think it is always harder on us Mom's than anyone else!!! I still get teary eyed at the memories of my kids throwing away their bottles... sweet memories!
Sorry! I have NO idea where the pictures went. They were there a little bit ago. I'll try to fix that later.
YEAH! Way to go, Stefan!!! So proud of you--and what great ceremonies one has with 2 year old's. LOVE IT!
Sweet story! Made me cry :-)
Great article, Johanna. And why is it that you don't like writing? All you need is the right subject matter. :)
Congratulations, Stefan. It is true that mommies do get a little sad watching their babies become Big Boys, but it sure is fun being a Big Boy, isn't it? And mommies REALLY like it when their Big Boys are having fun!!! Great job on your recent accomplishments. We're proud of you.
You're such a good writer, Jo! Loved reading this post. And, way to go Stefan AND Mommy on saying "bye bye" to the paci! Aren'te celebrations fun?!
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